A Girl Worth Choosing

1 Peter 3: 3-4

Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.

Good afternoon dear ones!   I love this scripture and often read it and think, how can I have a gentle and quiet spirit?  I believe that as we give our lives over to the Lord, He refines us into what He would like us to be.  This verse says that a gentle and quiet spirit is of great worth in God's sight, so if we are living for Him, He will help you to have the right spirit.

In this day where outward adornment seems to be the most important thing for many, this verse can be challenging.  In light of selfies and the social media craze, everyone wants to look their best, even if it is fake and not representative of who we truly are.  There is a better way.

Yes, we want to look our best, and there is nothing wrong with styling your hair and wearing nice (and modest) clothing, but it must not become a matter of attention-getting and pride.  This verse is telling us that what is really important is our spirit.  What is inside us, in our heart.

Have you ever seen a lady who radiates beauty from within?  She has a glow and confidence that only comes from a relationship with Christ.  She has dignity and is not going to compromise in order to please others.  Whether it be in the way she dresses, cares for herself or speaks, she always aspires to do what is right so that she can be blameless in God's sight.  There is no beauty that is more magnificent than this.  

Just remember, anytime you make up your mind that God is able to help you achieve the goals you set in life, the world is going to put pressure on you to compromise.  Maybe, you decide to dress more modestly, then a friend comes along and tells you it's weird to worry about that kind of thing.  Or...you decide to keep your chastity until marriage, and a friend tells you that is old fashioned.  This is when you have to muster all of your courage and be an example to your friends.  Stand your ground as it pertains to your character and integrity, and they will respect you for it. 

It isn't easy, and sometimes you have to be the outcast for a while, but in the long run, people will see your good behavior and want to know what's different about you.  That is something most people are seeking and don't even know it.  So, stand firm in your convictions (a firmly held belief or opinion) and ALWAYS follow what Christ wants for your life.  

You will never be disappointed!

FYI:  If you're looking for cute modest outfits, Pinterest has so many.  Just type in "Modest Clothing" in the search bar or even "Apostolic Outfits".  These tend to be long skirts, but so cute.

Many blessings,

Kim